Firstly, allegations of "grooming" were always motivated by bigotry more than anything else, and are in the current situation politically explosive and could end up putting their targets under personal threat, so cut that crap out.
Secondly, I've never personally fished in the pond I swim in, but I have been assured by former Football Ferns (some of whom did play with their ex's) that everyone's a grown-up about such things.
Thirdly, Jale's current partner (according to this forum) is Mackenzie Barry, so that *would* set up an interesting dynamic.
Fourthly, the word "sheboinking" is kind of funny and kind of gross, so I'm going to suggest not using it unless you are a sheboinker.
