Phoenix captain Andrew Durante - as much as I love him - is no saint with his gob on the pitch. Just saying it's an issue far and wide in the game.
the difference for me is that at Nix games it's much harder to hear what the players are saying. At SS Prem games you can hear pretty much everything on the pitch
Thats not an excuse though, it still happens and is obvious. You can't shoot down players from a team you don't like but just dismiss it when its the captain of your club. The league doesn't matter either, professional or not.