Also I just read your comments in the comment section and they bug me a little too.
If you didn't write the headline that's fine BUT and I want to emphasize this, the readers don't know that. I would have thought you wrote it too and except for one post that kind of implies you didn't write it, you don't clarify.
I tried to get them to change it as that is not the headline I used and when I tried to make this clear to everyone, the closed the comments so I couldn't add anymore.
The article saying " Why I'm embarrassed to be a Wellingtonian" at a minimum implies its better elsewhere. After all if I said I was embarrassed to be a Phoenix fan because one drunk guy hit me int he face the Nix and/or yellow fever would say that's not representative of all of them and an appropriate argument would be that one bit of violence isnt specific to football fans.
Is it a yellow fever problem if one person is a dick? would you support someone saying its a yellow fever and Liverpool problem if one person wearing a YF scarf and a Liverpool shirt didn't stand up for someone who wanted something but didn't ask? I would say its unfair to single out yellow fever and Liverpool when the issue could be more widespread.
It was experienced in Wellington, it was written by a Wellingtonian for Wellingtonians to as them to be more considerate, I can hardly write about areas I haven't been to even though they are likely the same or worse. I was embarrassed by the events I saw that we don't tend to live up to our kind and helpful reputation.
I don't know, might be pointless saying this but I think the headline defines the article as one about being ashamed of this city, which at a minimum implies other places are better at your criticisms, and borderline outright says it.
I'm not sure how much clearer I can be about the headline...
I also sense you're going to be angered further by both of my replies. Probably best to let you know now that while I understand your views, I disagree with you 100% that people should need to ask if they need help. We're very far apart on this - I respect your opinion, I'm comfortable with my opinion and there is little change of us meeting in the middle.