so its ok for you to hurl abuse/threats at another guy but if someone said it to your daughters you'd be upset? double standard much?
I wasn't there, but the blow by blow from both parties seems consistent and to me it doesn't seem like there was any sort of threat, just a drunken "listen to me" grab, followed by a "don't attack me" retort, and then a "if I attacked you, you'd know it" explanation/boast.
It's all pretty typical of a night out with a few beers, the crazyest thing to me is not what happened but that Hatter didn't just try and forget about it and move on but instead brought it up here.