Brisbane fans the other week made a USB banner; it didn't go down well with lots of people saying how Mel McLaughlin is the victim in those circumstances, and that while mentions of the USB stick embarrass Rudan, they humiliate her.
I see your point about not wanting to hurt her, but personally I think it only humiliates him and doesn't reflect badly on her in any way at all.
USB sticks may humiliate Mel but "Listen Here Fudge Face" was focused at Patrick so more Phoenix anyway. Regardless, too late to do anything (other than yell it at him when he comes on field or something)