printed chants at the first home game, handed them out.
Have chants with animated videos on the free app.
Held meetings that anyone was welcome to.
Lots of people getting to know each other before and after the game, especially at bethel woods.
There has to be some sort of exec to ensure things get done, but honestly everyone is very open. Particularly this season we've been very inclusive I reckon.
Mods on this forum from the "circle jerk" you mentioned have openly said they don't like the "where were you when we were shit" chant, yet you blame it on the entirety of yellow fever when a few people chant it a few years ago?
There are some legitimate gripes and things that give people the perception of elitism. I think that is being recognised and addressed big time this season. And good on everyone for that. But I also think there are some people who enjoy and revel on standing on the outside throwing stones on what they imagine to be the inside. These people never offer anything constructive, and when asked to come and join for a beer to discuss never actually front up. If you go up to a lot of yellow fever, say hi and have a beer they're all very accomodating. I know, I've done it many a time with many people on this forum (and those feverites not on this forum).
Give it a go sometime. You'll be pleasantly surprised.