in my view less of a kiwi due to his it's all about me and I'll use you when I need you but then I'll go and sleep in someone's else's bed when a better thing comes along
There is a word that describes that so he can go fudge himself
Sounds to me like classic tall poppy syndrome going on here.
Just because his path wasn’t the way you would like it.
He forged his own path. Good for him!
I know who will be having the last laugh.