I know what you're saying,and it was wrong of me to link what you said with Haden (Though this is a thread about what he said).
I just think the context in what he said it was pretty disgusting,and is the key difference to how you're putting it,and what he said. He said in a context that was defending the rugby players,as i said above "some are targeting sportsman" (as i said above - 'they deserve it') or even in a way that denied that theyd been raped at all "when he cheque bounces then they decide theyve been raped".
He really is a typical 'old school' rugby boof head.
while you're more focusing on the fact you dislike those who throw themselves at famous people,in a way that is unrelated to rape.
I agree he is a boofhead but I also do believe that partly its the culture consisting of woman throwing themselves at their fame that turns rugbyheads and esp aussie league players into guys who have little respect for woman and who have a low opinion of the 'so called' loose ones.
My mate I mentioned earlier has calmed down a bit lately but at one point he wd usually sleep with (or have some kind of sexual interlude) between 5-10 diff woman every week often in groups & he never chased. It was bizarre and stupid of both parties but his reasoning was they were there for the taking and willing to do what he wanted so why not. He always seemed to consider his groupies a diff species from the woman he was mates with or occasionally actually got involved with - that whole whores or wives type of breakdown
Another mate of mine once spent 3hrs chatting on the phone with me in the middle of his night from a hotel corridor overseas while two of his international sporting teammates both f**ked stray woman in his room next to ea other. both of those guys were married and he said it was a regular occurrence with many of the team - take what is offered
its just my opinion that if you're constantly exposed to woman (often drunk) willing to do things to you without any satisfaction or benefit simply because of who you are then you are bound to not think much of them & end up having little regard to their feelings/wants/reasoning etc & you're certainly not likely to have any respect for them
. Im saying you're saying it in one context,whereas he tried to use it as a valid reasoning for it. Not you.