People don't choose to be gay, they just are. People choose their politics. If you choose to be an asshat in government, then that's on you. There's no weakening of position here like you claim.
Your argument simply does not make sense and instead shows evidence of the cognitive dissidence that seems so rife these days within the left/liberal scene.
On one hand liberals cry out for "equality", "inclusiveness" and "tolerance" next minute they are saying its OK to remove someone from your business if you don't like or agree with what they may or may not represent.
So do you want equality and tolerance or not? Seems like you want to have it only when it suits you.
Come on man, time you get honest with yourself, you're just as much a hater as the people your allege to be haters themselves.
All this further reinforces my earlier post that people simply are getting more and more extreme and intolerant and instead of being brought back to reality for having such extreme views they surround themselves with like minded folk who all think the same way and not only reinforce their position but normalise it within their group think.