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Posted March 18, 2014 01:55 · last edited March 18, 2014 02:01

Just taken this from the match thread and thought it belonged here.

Lonegunmen wrote:

I'd actually like to be there with Ben Williams watching a full replay and seeing how he reacts to his choices and decisions. Surely even he would have to admit he fucked up.

He'd have to leave his ego at the door though. And why does he always smile at you just before he gives you a card?



Folk smile when they are nervous and can have an inverse facial reaction when in stressful situations such as conflict.  At the very least it might just be a rueful smile. He has obviously found himself highly stressed or perhaps out of his depth and now emotions have died down a bit, we should step back from it. I mean we can all jump up and down at the time, (I certainly did), but it would be interesting to think about why he had such an appalling match. Training has to be an issue.

The direct body overseeing refereeing would do well to look at this match and I'd expect to see him, (Williams), interviewed to discover why he reached the decisions he did, what level of stress he felt he was under, did he feel intimidated by the presence of Kewell and what would he do differently. I wonder how much conflict management these guys do and how they manage aggression. I see he is a PT teacher so I wonder what conflict training there is for teachers these days as well?

As you work in a highly stressful environment LG where conflict and aggression is commonplace I wonder what your thoughts are about Williams after you've had a chance to reflect on what happened? How do you react/have reacted and how stress effects your decision-making and how you manage it?  I know I've blundered in my role when stress has got to me in the past and I've built up a number of ways of trying to prevent stress getting on top of me or managing it when it does. 

What would you like to see to improve refereeing in the A league, be it training or technology?


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ForteanTimes edited March 18, 2014 02:01

Just taken this from the match thread and thought it belonged here.

Lonegunmen wrote:

I'd actually like to be there with Ben Williams watching a full replay and seeing how he reacts to his choices and decisions. Surely even he would have to admit he fucked up.

He'd have to leave his ego at the door though. And why does he always smile at you just before he gives you a card?



Folk smile when they are nervous and can have an inverse facial reaction when in stressful situations such as conflict.  At the very least it might just be a rueful smile. He has obviously found himself highly stressed or perhaps out of his depth and now emotions have died down a bit, we should step back from it. I mean we can all jump up and down at the time, (I certainly did), but it would be interesting to think about why he had such an appalling match. Training has to be an issue.

The direct body overseeing refereeing would do well to look at this match and I'd expect to see him, (Williams), interviewed to discover why he reached the decisions he did, what level of stress he felt he was under, did he feel intimidated by the presence of Kewell and what he would do differently. I wonder how much conflict management these guys do and how they manage aggression. I see he is a PT teacher so I wonder what conflict training there is for teachers these days as well?

As you work in a highly stressful environment LG where conflict and aggression is commonplace I wonder what your thoughts are about Williams after you've had a chance to reflect on what happened? How do you react/have reacted and how stress effects your decision-making and how you manage it?  I know I've blundered in my role when stress has got to me in the past and I've built up a number of ways of trying to prevent stress getting on top of me or managing it when it does. 

What would you like to see to improve refereeing in the A league, be it training or technology?


ForteanTimes edited March 18, 2014 01:56

Just taken this from the match thread and thought it belonged here.

Lonegunmen wrote:

I'd actually like to be there with Ben Williams watching a full replay and seeing how he reacts to his choices and decisions. Surely even he would have to admit he fucked up.

He'd have to leave his ego at the door though. And why does he always smile at you just before he gives you a card?



Folk smile when they are nervous and can have an inverse facial reaction when in stressful situations such as conflict.  At the very least it might just be a rueful smile. He has obviously found himself highly stressed or perhaps out of his depth and now emotions have died down a bit, we should step back from it. I mean we can all jump up and down at the time, (I certainly did), but it would be interesting to think about why he had such an appalling match. Training has to be an issue.

The direct body overseeing refereeing would do well to look at this match and I'd expect to see him, (Williams), interviewed to discover why he reached the decisions he did, what level of stress he felt he was under and did he feel intimidated by the presence of Kewell. I wonder how much conflict management these guys do and how they manage aggression. I see he is a PT teacher so I wonder what conflict training there is for teachers these days as well?

As you work in a highly stressful environment LG where conflict and aggression is commonplace I wonder what your thoughts are about Williams after you've had a chance to reflect on what happened? How do you react/have reacted and how stress effects your decision-making and how you manage it?  I know I've blundered in my role when stress has got to me in the past and I've built up a number of ways of trying to prevent stress getting on top of me or managing it when it does. 

What would you like to see to improve refereeing in the A league, be it training or technology?