Doloras you are one of the most depressing posters to read and up there with Steve-O.
I can'þ fudgeing win, when I try to be optimistic I get screamed at to fudge off and let people enjoy their angst. Clearly the broad masses don't dig my style, and whether I'm positive or negative makes no difference.
In my opinion your positivity/negativity makes no difference a lot of the time because most comments you make also have a dig attached at someone who either disagreed with you, or was wrong about something. Sometimes your mandate appears to be to call out someone, anyone, at any opportunity.
And yes I realise the irony in this post!
Having said that, I agree with a lot of your ideals, and I do enjoy your contribution to the forums - in particular I like that you fight the good fight against sexism, racism and inequality in general.