Is being friends after a break up...
Three for me, and two for them.
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....the hardest thing on earth.
Would of put that all in the title but it wouldn't fit.
Would of put that all in the title but it wouldn't fit.
Three for me, and two for them.
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stay away from her and hit the clubs
Founder
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More to do with your love thread I'm guessing Buffy?
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Yes sir.
I want to but don't want to. So really i don't know what i want.
Big talk on the cards tomorrow. That should be fun
I want to but don't want to. So really i don't know what i want.
Big talk on the cards tomorrow. That should be fun
Three for me, and two for them.
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Feverish is right, plenty of more fish in the sea.
Proud to have attended the first 175 Consecutive "Home" Wellington Phoenix "A League" Games !!
The Ruf, The Ruf, The Ruf is on Fire!!
The Ruf, The Ruf, The Ruf is on Fire!!
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trouble is buff, she can and will be happy to be friends, I'm yet to met a guy who can do the same. Somehow women seem to be able to move onto the friendship leel regardless of what has gone before...we on the other hand cannot.
Move on, be acquaintances and out some distance between you and her!
Move on, be acquaintances and out some distance between you and her!
Queenslander 3x a year.
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stay away from her and hit the clubs
Feverish is right - golf is the answer.
I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one.
All I do is make the stuff I would've liked
Reference things I wanna watch, reference girls I wanna bite
Now I'm firefly like a burning kite
And yousa fake fuck like a fleshlight
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stay away from her and hit the clubs
QFT
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Just cause you more angst, Buffy. Put it down to experience and move on
Apparently I'm apathetic, but I couldn't care less.
"Being a Partick Thistle fan sets you apart. It means youre a free thinker. It also means your team has no money." Tim Luckhurst, The Independent, 4th December 2003
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You don't have to be un-friendly to her, but you can't hang out anymore. That will do your head in.
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My yellow and red striped friend is right. Cut. All. Ties. Believe me, it's best in the long run.
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also sleep with at least of her close friends or immediate family members.
And video it.
All I do is make the stuff I would've liked
Reference things I wanna watch, reference girls I wanna bite
Now I'm firefly like a burning kite
And yousa fake fuck like a fleshlight
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If you wanna stay friends, my suggestion is take time apart first. Things will be too muddled at the moment, too easy to fall into old habits, and sometimes any sliver of hope of getting back together might make things confusing. Maybe stick to txt'ing if you must stay in contact.
Also, booze.
Also, booze.
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It's like when you've been given a banstick on the YF Forums.
You can read as much as you want but when it comes time to post a comment you get denied access to the site!
In reality mate, what she is saying is that she doesn't want anything to do with your penis! The rest of you she can be friends with though...
"Ive just re-visited this and once again realised that C-Diddy is a genius - a drunk, Newcastle bred disgrace - but a genius." - Hard News, 11:39am 4th June 2009
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It's like when you've been given a banstick on the YF Forums.
You can read as much as you want but when it comes time to post a comment you get denied access to the site!
In reality mate, what she is saying is that she doesn't want anything to do with your penis! The rest of you she can be friends with though...
So, if you chop your old fella off, you can do the friends thing!
Apparently I'm apathetic, but I couldn't care less.
"Being a Partick Thistle fan sets you apart. It means youre a free thinker. It also means your team has no money." Tim Luckhurst, The Independent, 4th December 2003
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No Buffy... not now... not ever.
it.
can't.
happen.
There will be (more) tears.
They will (again) be yours.
The new season isn't far away. Refocus!
Now.
it.
can't.
happen.
There will be (more) tears.
They will (again) be yours.
The new season isn't far away. Refocus!
Now.
E + R + O
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Arsenal Vs Barcelona -pre season Friendly - 13th July- Can you wait that long?
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It's like when you've been given a banstick on the YF Forums.
You can read as much as you want but when it comes time to post a comment you get denied access to the site!
In reality mate, what she is saying is that she doesn't want anything to do with your penis! The rest of you she can be friends with though...
So, if you chop your old fella off, you can do the friends thing!
Correct!
Because then even if you were to have thoughts about "old times" then you would be incapable of doing anything about it! Hence you can be friends!
"Ive just re-visited this and once again realised that C-Diddy is a genius - a drunk, Newcastle bred disgrace - but a genius." - Hard News, 11:39am 4th June 2009
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Depends if she's worth giving up.
My wife and I who I had been with for 17 years split in 2006. She's since remarried but we're still the best of friends and will at least talk or text to eachother everyday or at least every second day.
She's in Wellington and I'm in Palmy so the distance thing helps. We'll never get back together but I'm happy just to be friends. Too much history to throw away.
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Since when did anyone with half a brain turn to Yellow Fever for relationship advice!
Incredible stamina. No shame. Yellow Fever.
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Good point Smithy. 99% of us are completely useless.
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A quick look at the Exec could tell you that...
All of us in a dysfunctional marriage to the Fever, and cheating on her with our various clubs.
Incredible stamina. No shame. Yellow Fever.
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Shhh.... don't let the Phoenix know about Naenae. There will be a scene.
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Here's something to take your mind off her Buffster
I like tautologies because I like them.
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Well i didn't call tonight. But she emailed me and said we should catch up in a few weeks time when she's on holidays.
Yay or nay?
Yay or nay?
Three for me, and two for them.
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Well i didn't call tonight. But she emailed me and said we should catch up in a few weeks time when she's on holidays.
Yay or nay?
Yay or nay?
Yay!
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Nay
(unless there's some break up lovin involved!)
"Ive just re-visited this and once again realised that C-Diddy is a genius - a drunk, Newcastle bred disgrace - but a genius." - Hard News, 11:39am 4th June 2009
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break up sex combined with holiday sex. Who could turn that down.
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Surge is also correct, refocus time dude. Concentrate on the Nix build up to distract you.
MB executives, perhaps we could have a new forum for discussing such issues, Uncle Frankies Agony Corner??
Proud to have attended the first 175 Consecutive "Home" Wellington Phoenix "A League" Games !!
The Ruf, The Ruf, The Ruf is on Fire!!
The Ruf, The Ruf, The Ruf is on Fire!!
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Fixed.
break up sex combined with holiday sex. Sex. Who could turn that down?
Incredible stamina. No shame. Yellow Fever.
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Well i didn't call tonight. But she emailed me and said we should catch up in a few weeks time when she's on holidays.
Yay or nay?
Yay or nay?
Did you reply "what the f**k for?"
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I like tautologies because I like them.
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Who is that exactly?
Three for me, and two for them.
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Who is that exactly?
see, it's working already! *nudge nudge*
I like tautologies because I like them.
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My ex and I were together for 3 years and I left him in November 2007, he was my first love and all that. We spoke for a wee bit after we broke up but then we both got all nasty and bitter and and we stopped speaking. We've since found new partners who we're both happy with and we are really happy for each other. I'm going through a really sh*t time in my life right now, last week was probably the worst and so I rang my ex and we had a big chat and I ended up going over to his flat and hanging with him and and his flatmate (who I know really well from when we were together) and it felt so good because he knows me so well and really understands me. Neither of us found it weird (our partners were pretty pissed off understandably, but they'll get over it) and it was really nice to catch up.
So methinks - give it a while, I've heard it takes the length of your relationship x 3 to get over it, but if you two are strong and know that you just don't work yu could still talk, just never BFF.
And in the meantime root anything you can, its good for the soul after a relationship, enjoy being single! Take care of yourself xxx
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Who is that exactly?
John Bon Jovi?
Apparently I'm apathetic, but I couldn't care less.
"Being a Partick Thistle fan sets you apart. It means youre a free thinker. It also means your team has no money." Tim Luckhurst, The Independent, 4th December 2003
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I say you stay friends but set some boundaries about what you talk to
eachother about. Once those boundaries are set its pretty simple what u
do next.....see below.
Go to Lagerfield (just down from Establishment) on a Saturday night and pick yourself up a Cougar - they're mad for it down there if your a well-dressed bloke between 21-30. You will not regret this, I look forward to a report on here Sunday morning.
Good luck Young Jedi, may the Cougars be with you.....all night.
Barber212009-06-11 11:50:20
Go to Lagerfield (just down from Establishment) on a Saturday night and pick yourself up a Cougar - they're mad for it down there if your a well-dressed bloke between 21-30. You will not regret this, I look forward to a report on here Sunday morning.
Good luck Young Jedi, may the Cougars be with you.....all night.
Barber212009-06-11 11:50:20
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...between 21-30...
That's Buffy out then.
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