Can we just enjoy the win and forget all this bloody crap.
This may not be what you mean, but it is the message I hear when I read that you want us to "forget" it:
Let's and sweep it under the carpet and pretend it never happened.
Unfortunately to me that is indistinguishable from condoning it.
It's not okay.
Defending it is not okay.
Asking us to "forget it" is not okay.
Asking us to "move on" - well, that's different. That's not dismissing it, minimising it or forgetting it. It's accepting it happened, acknowledging it was not okay, and implicitly stating that if it happens again, it will get jumped on.
Forgetting it, on the other hand, implies that if/when it happens again the fact that it has happened before will be ignored.
So my vote at least is that we do NOT forget it.
Move on, as Dale suggested, by all means... but don't forget it.
And yes, enjoy the win - absolutely. I've been doing that all along...