To be honest I feel the same way about things like diving/simulation, especially when you consider the standard of refereeing we have in the A-League!
I spent several years of my childhood growing up in South America and there the footballing culture is totally different. There's so much more cheekiness in the latin game, Maradona was considered a hero for tricking the English and the Ref with his hand of god, especially considering that the UK had recently gone to war with Argentina without a great deal of justification. England was the enemy and Diego had just outwitted him!
When I first started playing here I found that big thuggish center backs would often shove me off the ball (I was a slow and small but occasionally tricky no10 playmaker, think Riquelme but without the skills), especially if I managed to make them look foolish a couple of times. This is the natural order of the game, and one of the weapons in my arsenal was to go down a little harder and pick up a freekick because if I tried to stay on my feet I would still lose the ball and I lacked the strength to protect it (if I wasn't able to skin the guy first of course). Therefore diving was a valuable part of my repertoire provided I couldn't get past the guy first using skill. My attitude was basically: if the ref isn't going to protect me then I need to take matters into my own hands.
Likewise, if I could get a couple pointy elbows into the CB's ribcage without the ref knowing then it was well worth it as well. He'd probably get angry, try and nail me and I'd just shimmy out of his path and be clean through on goal, whose laughing now sucker!
Now I'd never elbow somebody in the face or do anything that might genuinely endager another player (can't say the same thing for those thuggish CB's) and actions like Rivaldo's against Turkey in 02 are going a little too far but what Seo did to El**ch was more or less okay in my book. Sure I didn't like it because it got my team a red card but El**ch did go for him with the elbow to a certain extent. Fair play to Seo for tricking the ref into sending him off.
Gao against Melbourne is a good example of what I'm talking about. Their fullbacks were kicking lumps out of him and the ref didn't give two sh*ts! How the hell else is he going to get a foul out of him? As much as we like to be macho I prefer to see a game where skill and trickery is rewarded, and if center backs weren't such thugs it would be easier to get past them, therefore the game would be more enjoyable to watch and there would be no need to dive.
yeah i'm beginning to think like this - diving sucks, but the a-league is just too physical, if you don't milk it at all, you generally get nothing. Lots of times last night the ref was going to let stuff go until about 10 seconds later when players complained. Sure he was pretty consistent, but it's not good for the spectacle if attackers can't do their thing
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