I don't really understand all the angst - like people have said, tactically, at least in the first half, was the carbon-copy of the tactics from Dunedin, just didn't work out this time. Second-half we were forced to push up much higher up the pitch to press them, and this succeeded a few times where we managed to get the ball high up the field and have a couple of decent opportunities. But pressing that high with so many numbers is a very high-risk tactic against a good side (there was one situation I remember where we tried to box them in in one corner, and they passed their way out of trouble and the move ended with them shooting at our goal), and it is impossible to sustain over a long period of time. Like I said, we were forced into it through the circumstances, but we could not play like that for an entire game.
The bottom line is, they are just a better team. Their midfield is far superior to ours, they transitioned through the middle of the park almost at will, we could not even slow them down the whole day. Contrast that to our midfield, where we really struggled to get anything going. The best thing is just to move and write it off as a loss to a better team, and not dwell on it too much.
Agree with this, disagree with you on the ref. Offside was marginal, I think his body was offside, but can't blame the AR for not making the call when it is that close.
Berisha and Brown in the first half wasn't a penalty (assuming that is the one you are talking about), just a tangle of legs, and Berisha didn't claim a penalty and helped Brown up. I don't think Durante's one was a penalty either, was a shoulder to shoulder challenge to me.
I didn't see what Durante did to get the yellow, but it sounds like arm waving and dissent by action. I would actually love that to be cautioned more, but it seems pretty inconsistent to book Durante in this case, when previous cases go unpunished left right and centre. Browns yellow pretty clearly had no contact.
A significant number of fouls we gave away in this game (but by no means the anywhere near the majority) were never fouls but clean tackles.