I think the problem is the forums can be a bit poisonous and people leave as they can't be bothered dealing with it which makes it worst.
Also some peoples suggestions aren't seen so much as well thought out suggestions but more knee jerk arguments making it not worth the time to have a reasonable discussion with them about why it is wrong.
I don't quite get the toxic and poisonous views as I don't see much of it. Admittedly I know Patrick has cleaned up some bad posts quickly at times like the linesmans bordeline/bad calls drawing some sexist remarks.
But based on most corners of the internet with the ability to post comments, I've always thought its usually pretty reasonable here. Yea people say dumb things, but that's just people, and sure arguments get heated, but that's also just people.
I dunno, I just find it weird hearing the yellow fever pod seem so anti-the yellow fever forums. Unless I'm the source of all toxicity and that's why I can't see it.