Good pod chaps, but some things annoyed me in your booing discussion.
You said about how a booing fan was pulled up for booing and they responded with you're clearly not as passionate, and you pulled the booer up for saying he shouldn't say if someone is or isnt as passionate of a fan.
What if the booer considers booing a normal means for support, a "they wont play as shark if they are going to be hounded by the crowd" kind of situation. So to that person someone not booing might not be as good of a supporter in their eyes. Now if someone who not only isnt booing tells them to stop "supporting the team" I could understand them getting a little miffed.
It would be like someone telling someone else to stop chanting as its "annoying them". You would probably not be too chuffed with them, and they might complain about those annoying people singing instead of watching the game tot heir friends or their podcast, without actually understanding the views of the chanters.
If we are playing a bad game and make a cock up I sometimes let a few vocal FFS's slip now and then. Hell someone who sometimes joins me gets super pissed off at the zone for "referee's a wanker", "referee is shark" and "same old aussie" chants. He see's them as the fans just being bad sports and rude. I usually defend the Zones chants but not always, sometimes I bite my tongue as f**k it hes buying a ticket, which is more than most wellingtonians and I don't want him to be put off by something in my control. But he views some of the Fever's chants the way you view booing. And you would defend your chants int he same way a person who considers booing a good means of supporting.
Now any response of "you're not as passionate" is just condescending and stubborn. But in the same way he clearly didn't know she was the fan of the year to you guys, he might be the fan of the year to a different group of people who are also super passionate and may do a lot for the Nix behind the scenes but doesn't talk about it here or know anyone in the zone so you don't know what he may or may not do. That's doesn't excuse booing or his comments, but I think its fair to add some context, hell I didn't know who you consider fan of the year.
Also you said you wont tell anyone how to support the team, except telling them to not boo is doing exactly that, because again, they might consider that supporting the team. Sometimes the best way to support someone or something is to tell them its shark.
Also on top of that the booing was hardly coming from one person, there was quite a few I could hear so its not like its one person being a muppet. It's possible a lot of people consider that part and parcel of being a fan. I don't think so, but I'm not the only one with opinions.
But god the booing was annoying the shark out of me. I hate it when supporters boo their own teams. I sit on the right hand side and there was a couple which may or may not have had a Scottish person and the way they cussed on and on about the team really annoyed the shark out of me.
Especially because I'm used to the only thing behind me being cheers and "COMMME ON PHOEEEENIIIIX" (which catches me off guard every time, but in a good way). So hearing bitching the way they carried on really annoyed me.
Oh also I wanted to pull up the "they shouldn't come" comments. That really bothered me. As people high up in the supporters base of a team really struggling with crowd numbers that we were actively trying to boost not long ago telling fans that they shouldn't go to the game, really really irritated me. Come on Patrick, that's not cool.
And the last thing I hated, you pulling up people for leaving early the way you did. I get a chuckle when crowds do chants at people leaving as its fun banter. But the way you worded it on the pod really irritates me. I can understand wanting to leave an event when there is 10 minutes to go and your team is being spanked if it means you can beat the traffic. I drive an hour and a half to see the Nix on their home games, if the stadium was packed you could add half an hour to that leaving on time, and it's worse up Kapiti I believe. I can understand wanting to avoid the traffic, and the stand still that happens sometimes at games just walking out the gate.
I think its really bloody rude to not empathize with people in different situations to yourself, at least they paid, they turned up, and were counted in the metrics. Don't discount what they did if they want to get out of a hiding 10 minutes early, or are they more people you don't want turning up to games and helping the team financially and metrically.
Anyway those were just some of my annoyances. not sure if you do or don't care but it helps me to get it out.